First of all, if you would like to see a cool website with ways to do some Acts of Green on Remembrance Day, see: http://www.greenmuze.com/green-your/celebrations/538-green-remembrance-day.html
On a more serious note, today I think of my grandfather who served in the 'war to end all wars', the first world war from 1914-18, because he thought he could make a difference. Private Victor Kindree (I'm his namesake) tried to enlist too young with one of his older brothers, was turned away, yet eventually was taken on as a bugle boy, trained in warfare and sent oversees. He thought it was his duty to protect his family, his community, his country, so they would not face the war in his homeland. He used to talk with my mother about the endless mud; explained the war not in glorious terms, but with realism: what it was really like, to trudge on, foot by foot, yard by yard, at Vimy Ridge and elsewhere in Europe as his friends, family and comrades died. He talked about the fear and the horror, while still respecting the sacrifices so many made, including two of his brothers.
Although I never had the privilege of meeting him, Victor was an avid lover of nature who taught his children to respect all living creatures. He was a settler of disputes, a peaceful man, community minded, quiet, gentle, charismatic, and well respected in his home town of Owen Sound, Ontario. Because he was shot in the back with shrapnel, he was reminded daily and painfully of the effects of war. He understood nature, liked to hike, would enjoy one beer after work in the backyard, and wanted to be at peace in the world. Even when he had flashbacks, he would encourage my Mom and her brother Bill to sit outside on the porch and enjoy the thunder, and respect our planet's power and might.
I often wonder what he would think of the world today. I bet he would have been proud of Canada's previous role as peacekeepers, because he fought in a war that they were determined would be the last one. What would he think of the soldiers in Afghanistan, like my husband's friend who was shot by Americans in 'friendly fire'?
I wish that all wars had ended in 1918.
Today, as I attend the Remembrance Day ceremonies and lay a wreath as a councillor on behalf of my town of Saugeen Shores, I will think of the importance of the day, respecting the tremendous sacrifices that all troops give when offering their life for others...sadly thinking of the people around the world who are still fighting over resources, land, past grievances..of the wars to come because there will be so many eco-refugees moving from a lack of water, good farmland, rising sea levels...
But I'll be thinking especially of my grandfather. He gives me hope, for just as veterans have offered their lives for a cause they believe in, I can also have the strength and power in me to take on the tasks that face us today, like the climate crisis, with respect and steadfast faith that we can turn the tide and change the world.
I'd like to hope that if he were alive this Remembrance Day, he would be proud of me.